Where do you want to be in a crowd?  Are you the Alpha, in the middle of the main conversation?  The Beta, supporting several other players in the game? The Joker, propping up other egos with your own? The Wallflower, standing off to one side waiting for your moment? Cinderella, coming alive when the chance presents itself?

Or maybe you’re like Peter Wang, and you’re a raging Narcissist.  I figure he assumes that anyone who appears not to be paying attention to him is just pretending because they’re extra jealous and can’t stand themselves for it.